We love the police, but what?

What’s a book you never finished but still think about?

     One of the huge (Harry Potter) books.

I started it.

I don’t know which one it was.

I’m not a huge Harry Potter fan.

I know! I know! *Gasp!!!*.

How dare I?! Am I right? lol

However, I’m a big reader and love good books, so I decided to try one of them one day, and I started getting into it. I really did. Okay. I tried.

As much as it seemed really interesting, it was also really confusing and I just didn’t keep going.

Still, as interesting as it was and as much as I couldn’t get into it, I stopped reading it and still wonder who is who and what happens in the end. 🤣

It doesn’t make me want to finish it, but I still think about it from time to time whenever I see anything Harry Potter or anyone is talking about the movies / books.

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        Anyway…..

Let me tell you what happened last night. 👀

My daughter and I had just come out of Walmart and we went to the car where my oldest son and my youngest were waiting for us.

We sat there for a bit – as we laughed about videos we were watching, and shared funny Tik Toks.

It was pretty late and Walmart had just closed, so I looked up to take off, and I noticed a spot-light on us. No police lights or anything – just a dark SUV with a spotlight.

I mentioned that I think the police are behind us.

My son said he heard someone yelling, so we lowered our windows and heard this officer scream from behind the car, “Driver….turn off the vehicle!”. 

I did as I was told.

He yelled, “Passenger, put your hands outside of the window!”. My son did as he was told, and the cop yelled for me to do the same.

I did.

We were both thinking maybe he wanted to know why we were just sitting there in the car when Walmart had closed and the parking lot was clearing out, but what happened next – I was not at all ready for – at all.

The cop walks over to the passenger side with his gun drawn. Yep. You read that right. Gun drawn.

He was ready for whatever.

He tells us he got a report of a gun in my car and someone waving it around. 🤨 EXCUSE ME???????

I told him there’s no way, and I gave him full permission to search the car. He asked if there was anything in the car and my son was honest and told him about his little knife he carries around, but that was it. (Which he did get back once everything was cleared) and yes – the cop took it from him.

The cop asked my son to step out of the car and said he fits the description of the suspect. All he had at first was white – with dark curly hair.

We asked who called that goofy call in, and he said he’s trying to figure everything out and he’ll talk to us about what’s going on when he knows more.

Knowing he had his gun out and my son outside of the car – that didn’t sit right with me.

I’ve seen videos and heard stories of trigger happy cops and interactions with police that have gone bad, especially with men, so when the cop stood there talking to us – his dispatcher radio’ed him and the description sounded like it changed.

Black mail with curly hair.

Then ………….

White male with Black curly hair. 

My son is Caucasian / Hispanic with dark blondish / brown hair, so I almost felt like asking the cop if he was sure he knew what he was doing (joking around), but I could tell by the look he made – that he was confused.

The dispatcher sounded confused.

WE were confused.

The whole thing was insane.

So, he tells the dispatcher he needs a correct description or – asked her something about the right one because he is in the parking lot with a white male that has curly hair.

She sounded like she was trying to figure it out, so he told us, “Hang tight. Stay right here while I try to figure this out”.

He was more concerned about this gun that someone called in.

When he walked back to his SUV, I jumped out of my car (slowly of course) and had my son stand right by me to make sure nothing got crazy or this didn’t go wrong.

Not to mention that my other two kids were in the car, and this was all new to me.
I’ve been stopped by the cops before for petty traffic stuff, but nothing like this.

He drove all around the Walmart building and throughout the parking lot, (possibly looking for another car just like mine?). No idea, but then he parks way across the lot and just sits there for 30 minutes.

My daughter had to pee and she wasn’t feeling well, so I called dispatch and asked her what was going on.

I didn’t want to go walk up to the cop, so I told her that her officer is just sitting across the lot and we’d like to leave. I asked her what was going on, and she told me there’s an active investigation and once her officer figures it out, he’ll come talk to us.

20 minutes later – he moved up a few inches and just sat there still, so I called dispatch back, and told her how ridiculous this is.

All he had to do was SEARCH the dang car!

I already gave him the permission. No, we didn’t have a gun, and nobody was waving one out of the window of my car.

Check the Walmart cameras, my guy.

I’m sure someone is inside right now to let you in.

So, she said she would let her office know we’re waiting and wanted to leave.

He finally came back over to us and when he did, he was on the phone screaming at two young ladies (that I won’t name, but I should!!!).

He jumped out of his police SUV and yelled into his phone with them on speaker, “This is not a game! I want you to know there are kids in the back of the car and this could have turned out bad”. He continued to question these young ladies, and we heard them blaming each other. We heard them saying they thought they saw a gun.

Then, we heard them try to say they didn’t say there was a gun. They said they didn’t know what was hanging out of the window.

The cop was very much angry and aggravated with these two young ladies and told them it takes him 5 minutes to go back and listen to the original 911 call. 

He said if he hears them say it was a gun and now they’re trying to change the story, he’s coming over there and reading text messages between both of them because he has both of their addresses, and one of them is going to end up going to jail.

They started crying and saying, “Please – no!”. He let them know he doesn’t take false police reports and 911 calls lightly and they thought this was so funny and now they’re going to deal with the consequences.

When he got off the phone with them, he let us know he was going to investigate, listen to the 911 call, go to their houses and may arrest one or both.

He apologized to us so many times, and said he just has to do his job, and it seems like they’re just calling in fake calls and making up bullshit.

He told us about another woman who was making false reports and abusing 911, and he arrested her and charged her, and he had no problem doing the same with these girls.

We have no idea who they are or why they did it, unless they do this often with random people.

The cop sounded like he knew them and he truly laid into them and gave them a piece of his mind as they cried and begged him not to arrest them.

My son was handed his knife back and this cop thanked us for understanding and cooperating.

When he was off the phone with him, he handed me his card with the police report on it, his name, number and email and told me he was so sorry again.

He explained that my son matched the description of the suspect and my car matched the car that was reported, so he had to do what he had to do.

My little dude was nervous.

The cop asked if he had my permission to walk over and assure him that everything was fine. Of course, I said yes.

He told my son all was good, that we did nothing wrong and we’re not in trouble. (Duh?). 🤣

We had a good laugh about it – my older son, the cop and myself. 

He asked my little dude if he wanted a sticker, but he said no.

I should have taken a sticker for this hilariously / ridiculous memory.

While he got back in his SUV, I was walking away and told him to have a good night and stay safe. He stopped me and asked if he could have my information to keep in touch if anything happens with these ladies.

He wasn’t sure if he was going to charge them with a misdemeanor or a felony, but I called today and as of right now – the report is still under investigation.

The whole thing was nonsense and I’d love to know who they are, so I can let them have a piece of my mind as well.

I just know their first names.

So, that happened.

I am so grateful it wasn’t horrible and the cop wasn’t one of the cops looking for a power trip moment.

There’s really some great cops out there.

I am so grateful that he figured it out and got us on our way (an hour later). As we were leaving, another cop pulled up, but we were told we were free to leave.

I did have to laugh when he asked if I lived around there and I told him we just moved back to the area and I said I was staying around there, so yes.

I told him we lived in Minnesota for 6 years. He smiled and said “Welcome to the area”. I replied, “Guns drawn and all, huh?”. 🤣

I think we both had a good laugh about that one.

Baby, I’m not messing up the fact that I have two criminal justice degrees – over a gun charge. No, thanks!

I was happy he took the time to investigate that hot mess 911 call correctly.

We’ll see what happens from here.

If you have nothing to hide – and a cop rolls up on you – cooperate! It’s your best bet to get out of it alive, and well.

  My darlings.

  Have a beautiful night. ❤️

I’m so tired. I’m going to try to relax the rest of the night and enjoy the cool breeze that Illinois is getting right now.

           

                                             ☕ Shel☕

A funny cop story, my birthday theme, and Baseball – (Sunflower seeds in the Urinal).

Good morning darlings!

I love to write because sometimes – if someone is going through something, or having a bad day, I can share something that might make them laugh or help them a bit.

If I can make someone even smile or put them in a better mood, I’m all for it.

So, let me tell you about the cutie with a badge that got me yesterday morning.

CUTIE WITH A BADGE:

I was out and about and coming off of a country dirt road. I was stopped at a stop sign waiting to turn left and waiting for cars going back and forth – to pass, so I could make my turn.

This cop turned onto the same country dirt road I was about to turn off of and when I looked straight at him, I saw he was looking straight at me.

Dammit. Sometimes – that eye contact isn’t always a good thing. (I say that with humor).

Whenever you have a cop’s attention, it’s probably for a reason – other than your makeup and hair being on point. ha.

I looked in my rearview when he passed by, and I saw him make a slow U-turn, so I already knew I was about to be stopped.

I made my left turn and pulled over before he even turned on his lights.

Of course, he made the same left turn and flipped his lights on – pulling behind me on the side of the road.

He comes over to the window and tells me he wanted to stop me to see if I knew that my front license plate sticker was missing, and he couldn’t read my license plate in the front.

He laughed when I told him, “I was wondering what I did wrong. I was just sitting there waiting to turn!”. I admitted I knew about the license plate. I have no idea how it happened, but I’m guessing last year when we had some hurricane-winds come through and damage a lot of things. It was already peeling a bit, so that probably finished it off, and because the back plate is still there, and no cops really say anything about it – I just left it alone.

I don’t plan on keeping my car much longer anyway. I do plan to trade it in or sell it cheap one day soon, so I’m trying not to put a bunch of money into it, either. I want a family SUV.

Anyway, cutie with a badge asks if I have my license and insurance on me and he’ll get me on my way.

My license? At home on my desk. 🤔I was honest and told him I left it at home, but I’d give him all of my information.

He took a look at the insurance and without even asking my information – told me he’d be right back and he was just going to make sure my license was valid. I’m guessing he looked me up by the plate information in the back?! So, he comes back – tells me it’s valid, and then says, “Hey! By any chance, do you happen to know a Daniel S******?”. I looked at him confused, and told him no.

Whoever this Daniel is – he better not be saying he’s associated with me. (lol)

The cop laughed and told me he is looking for him.

I told cutie with a badge that I’m originally from Chicago, moved here in 2020 – and just kind of …………………………………..

He finished my sentence for me when he smiled and said, “Mind your own business and stay to yourself?”.

Sir! At this point – just write down your number because you’re already finishing my sentences. You seem to know me so well. 😁

He sent me on my way and told me to have a great day, but I did feel like telling him not to let people he stops – know that he’s looking for this Daniel guy because whoever really does know this Daniel guy – can lie about it and then go tell this Daniel guy this cop is looking for him – which will make this Daniel guy go into hiding if he’s not already. Maybe he’s looking for Daniel because he’s missing.

Not sure.

Either way, Cutie with a badge let me go – and said he just wanted to know if I knew about my license plate.

It’s my car. I sure do.

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MY BIRTHDAY:

Every year for my birthday, the kids and I go see a movie, order pizza and have a cake.

I wanted to do something different this year and maybe do a themed birthday for myself.

I came across a TikTok post a few weeks ago – that showed old toys and characters from cartoons, and Rainbow Brite was one of the characters they showed. When I was little, I loved her! I had so many things of Rainbow Brite and I carried that doll around to most places I went. (If you don’t know who she is – Google her).

I decided I wanted a Rainbow Brite themed birthday this year.

I was going to buy the RB costume from Amazon and wear it all damn day long for fun. I wanted to be crazy, wild, creative on my birthday – no matter where I went or what we did this year, and if people looked at me weird or funny, I’d proudly and in a silly, playful way announce, “It’s my birthday! I get to do what I want and dress how I want!”.

Hell, maybe some people would take it as a photo Opp and post it to their socials for fun – because why not?! There are other fun people in the world who get a good laugh out of the crazy, wild fun people like me doing the most random things just because.

I decided to ditch the costume. I felt like that was a little too much, but I still wanted to do something with that theme, so I decided to order a Rainbow Brite cake at least – instead of having the boring, basic Walmart cakes we get for my birthday every year. I also do plan to order a colorful, fun, bright and crazy wig and take some cute, fun photos – because again – why not?!

So, I called a local bakery nearby and asked them if they could make a Rainbow Brite cake for me.

You should have seen my face when the young lady who answered the phone – asked me, “Rainbow Brite? What is that? Is that a character or a show or something?” 🤔

Seriously?????

Is – she – so – for – real – right – now??????

I looked at my older son who was sitting next to me when I was on the phone with the bakery, and I explained to her – who RB is. I told her she’s from the 80’s and 90’s. The bakery girl told me to send her over a photo of what I wanted and said they could do it if it’s not copy written.

When I hung up the phone – I sent her the photo of what I want on the cake.

I also sent her one of just a plain rainbow if she can’t do the RB cake – and I’d order some RB cake toppers myself because Amazon has almost everything, right?

When I sent the photos over to the bakery, I mentioned to my son that I can’t believe she didn’t know who Rainbow Brite is, and he laughed – telling me, “It’s because you’re old!”.

OLD AND FABULOUS, DARLING!

What I don’t want to do this year for my birthday – is go see another movie.

I may just take the kids to the park – and grill. Maybe do some fishing. Maybe head to a totally different area and get lost somewhere to change the scenery.

I just want to have fun. Forget everything for one day and do something amazing this year for my birthday.

It’s coming up in 9 days, and I have to figure out what I want to do, but I know that I don’t want to go see a movie, and I don’t want to be home. So, we’ll see.

BASEBALL GAME:

My little dude had his first baseball game yesterday against another school’s team.

It was a home game, and we won.

He didn’t play much.

He was mostly center field and batted once, but he’s just really learning the game and his coach is amazing at teaching it.

My kiddo throws beautifully. He catches beautifully, but he’s just learning to bat, and run bases, etc.

He’s loved baseball forever now, but I feel bad because I’ve only taught him catching and pitching, and never really thought of batting and bases, since we’ve only played for fun.

Now that he’s on a team, of course he needs to get better and practice batting, bases, and the basics of the game, so I’m happy he has the coach he has and the other volunteer coaches, because they’re excellent with him.

Still, what matters – is that he has fun, he learns, and he gets better with time.

He’s not the only kid who is just learning the real game and that’s okay.

They all encourage each other, work as a team, and help one another.

So, we won yesterday and tomorrow – we play a different school.

It’s so exciting to see him be a part of something, and to finally – really – learn the sport he has been interested in for a while now.

Parents were told to sign up to volunteer for a few things, and for some reason, I decided to sign up to clean up the bathrooms and take out the trash when the games are over. It only has to be done twice, but – I’m wondering if any other parents volunteered for cleanup duty, or if it was just my goofy self.

I don’t mind though. As a mother, I’m always cleaning, and that includes the bathroom!

In all honesty, I thought – how bad could a bathroom be after a kid’s game, but – WHICH ONE OF YOU LITTLE BOOGERS PUT SUNFLOWER SEEDS IN THE URINAL????????????????? 🤔🤣 The fact that I had to get a napkin and dig them out – was not right! A few napkins, actually! Oy.

I’m a mom, so it didn’t really bother me, and nothing grosses me out or surprises me anymore, but still – I’m curious as to which kid decided that would be funny!

I had to laugh when one of the dads I talk to – said he wouldn’t be surprised if it wasn’t a kid who did it, but a grown ass man.

Sir, did you do it?! lol. Kidding. I know he wouldn’t, but you know what? It wouldn’t surprise me if it was grown ass man who did it, either. Lord, have Mercy!

My loves.

I wish I had more to write, but for now – I’m out of here.

😊Shel😊